Monday, July 8, 2013

Taking My Own Medicine

I need to take my own medicine. For the past several months I have been so impressed by how important it is to listen to people. I even wrote my last blog post in it. I have been saying this on Facebook. I have been saying this to my friends and family who have come to me for advice (Ha! Imagine that! What were they thinking?) I even wrote this on a church survey. And most of all, I have been telling this to my husband.

Matt and I don't get in too many fights. We are both rather conflict-averse, but most of all, and perhaps because our relationship is much more of a friendship/companionship type marriage, we just don't have all that much to fight about.

But recently we have had a few good ones. They have run along the lines of my "Why do you have to try and fix me?" rant that some of you know so well. I have explained, passionately, just how much I need to be listened to and have been fighting against his words. But I missed something. It was all about me. ME.

I have been dishing out to the person I love more than anyone on the face of the planet advice what I haven't been willing to take myself.

He needs me to listen to him just as much as I need him to listen to me. Maybe this is what Jesus is talking about when he says in John 15:13 that

"Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends."

Perhaps I need to lay aside my need to be listened to and just sit down and listen to my husband. 

Lord, Jesus, may my ears be big and my mouth be small. Amen.

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